*TOPIC: AVOIDING PITFALL IN MARRIAGE/ RELATIONSHIP*(Series 5)
*Scripture Reading:* Proverbs 10:12, Titus 3:3
Continuation from where we stopped yesterday; still on pitfall to avoid in marriage/relationship:
*6) Discord and hatred of your spouse:* The moment you refuse to agree with your spouse on many occasions, automatically, hatred will set in. And it causes you to walk in darkness. Titus 3:3 says; *"For we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another."* You must fight against constant disagreement and hatred in your marriage so as to avoid pitfall. The Lord will keep your home in Jesus Christ name.
*7) An uncontrolled tongue is a deadly poison and a word of iniquity:* Husband and wife must build their lives on the right word to each other on daily basis because this is part of your destiny. An uncontrolled tongue is a deadly poison to your destiny. Life and death are in your tongue. *"The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit."*(Proverbs 18:21) Stop using hard and negative words on your spouse no matter what he or she does because they speak louder later in the future.
*8) Taking your Spouse for granted:* That’s like having a garden that you’re not weeding or fertilizing, *You can’t expect it to continue to thrive. Let your partner knows you appreciate him or her.* Show some kindness and learn to appreciate no matter how little because it has great influence on your home. Stop taking him or her for granted! That's your blood and your flesh, you can't afford to treat him or her badly.
*9) Forgetting that a good marriage takes work:* People think that having a happy marriage is a magical, mystical occurrence. says by a marriage and family therapist (Dr. Leslie Parrott). He is the co-author of When Bad Things Happen to Good Marriages (Zondervan/HarperCollins). *This is the fact that parenting takes a lot of skill. But we don’t want to accept the idea that to make our marriage heaven on earth, we must also work it out.* You have your role to play in it. to avoid pitfall in your marriage, it requires serious work on you as husband and wife. To be continue tomorrow morning by God's Grace. Good morning and do have a great day, peace.
*Prayer point:* Father, give me wisdom in relating with my spouse according to your will for our lives in fulfilling destiny in Jesus Christ name. Amen!
T.S. AFOLAYAN
*TOPIC: AVOIDING PITFALL IN MARRIAGE/ RELATIONSHIP*(Series 5)
*Scripture Reading:* Proverbs 10:12, Titus 3:3
Continuation from where we stopped yesterday; still on pitfall to avoid in marriage/relationship:
*6) Discord and hatred of your spouse:* The moment you refuse to agree with your spouse on many occasions, automatically, hatred will set in. And it causes you to walk in darkness. Titus 3:3 says; *"For we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another."* You must fight against constant disagreement and hatred in your marriage so as to avoid pitfall. The Lord will keep your home in Jesus Christ name.
*7) An uncontrolled tongue is a deadly poison and a word of iniquity:* Husband and wife must build their lives on the right word to each other on daily basis because this is part of your destiny. An uncontrolled tongue is a deadly poison to your destiny. Life and death are in your tongue. *"The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit."*(Proverbs 18:21) Stop using hard and negative words on your spouse no matter what he or she does because they speak louder later in the future.
*8) Taking your Spouse for granted:* That’s like having a garden that you’re not weeding or fertilizing, *You can’t expect it to continue to thrive. Let your partner knows you appreciate him or her.* Show some kindness and learn to appreciate no matter how little because it has great influence on your home. Stop taking him or her for granted! That's your blood and your flesh, you can't afford to treat him or her badly.
*9) Forgetting that a good marriage takes work:* People think that having a happy marriage is a magical, mystical occurrence. says by a marriage and family therapist (Dr. Leslie Parrott). He is the co-author of When Bad Things Happen to Good Marriages (Zondervan/HarperCollins). *This is the fact that parenting takes a lot of skill. But we don’t want to accept the idea that to make our marriage heaven on earth, we must also work it out.* You have your role to play in it. to avoid pitfall in your marriage, it requires serious work on you as husband and wife. To be continue tomorrow morning by God's Grace. Good morning and do have a great day, peace.
*Prayer point:* Father, give me wisdom in relating with my spouse according to your will for our lives in fulfilling destiny in Jesus Christ name. Amen!
T.S. AFOLAYAN
