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Today, let your stillness speak louder than noise. Don’t rush to explain yourself
let your energy and presence reveal who you are. Whether you’re creating, praying, or just breathing… know that divine timing is always more powerful than human effort.

Always Grateful

The Upright Man!
“We Are All Sankara’s”: The Flame That Refused to Die. He lived for the people. He died among them. And even in death, they never let go.

In the dusty heart of West Africa, Thomas Sankara dared to dream—and to act. Born in December 1949, he rose like a storm and passed like a meteor, gone too soon in October 1987 at just 38. Yet, his four-year presidency transformed not just a nation, but a mindset. When he seized power in 1983, Upper Volta was a name left behind. He rechristened it Burkina Faso, “Land of Upright People,” a reflection of his ideals—and himself. Sankara was upright in character, fiery in truth, and unwavering in justice.

In a world that too often trampled on women’s voices, Sankara raised them. He banned forced marriages, championed girls' education, appointed women to leadership, and declared, “The revolution and women’s liberation go together. We do not talk of women’s emancipation as an act of charity, but as a basic necessity.” This was no mere rhetoric—it was policy, it was action, it was belief. He lived simply, shunning the trappings of power. He sold government limousines, took a modest salary, and even rode a bicycle to work.

But truth is a dangerous thing. On October 15, 1987, Sankara convened a meeting with 13 close allies to discuss the nation’s pressing issues. It began at 4:15 p.m. By 4:30, the meeting room echoed with gunfire. The first to fall were his bodyguards and driver. Sankara tried to protect the others. Always the shield, never the sword. But this would be his final act. The bullets that rang out that day didn’t just kill a man—they tried to kill a movement.

Yet the revolution did not die. At his humble grave, a note once appeared:
“Do not worry, Mama Sankara. We will avenge the death of your son. We are all Sankaras.”
No truer words could honor him. His spirit—unshaken, unyielding—still echoes in classrooms, protests, speeches, and songs across Africa and beyond.

Let us remember this: A man may be killed, but not his convictions. Thomas Sankara proved that when you live for the people, you never really die. You become the people.

For everything in life there is a season
God time is always the best.
Be patient God have not forget you.

*TOPIC: WHAT DO YOU STAND TO GAIN?*(Series 10)

*Scripture Reading:* 1 Samuel 26:15-16

*"David said to Abner, “Are you not a [brave] man? Who is like you in Israel? Why then have you not guarded your lord the king? For one of the people came [into your camp] to kill the king your lord. This thing that you have done is not good. As the Lord lives, you surely deserve to die, because you have not guarded your lord, the Lord’s anointed. And now, see where the king’s spear is, and the jug of water that was by his head.”*(AMP)

Continuation from where we stopped yesterday:

We need to take a lesson from David and stop the gossip, slander and misunderstandings about one another in the congregation of God. We need to critically study the life of David so as to really help us on how to respond to some tough situation amidst brethren.

David stopped the group of men in the cave, and told them not to harm Saul. But I put it to you today that I have seen countless times when ministers of God are after their lives all in the name of ranks, position, authority, influence, connection, fame, etc. Will the Lord be please with this act?

*David specifically ordered Abishai, not to harm Saul because he's the Lord's anointed and he has respect and honor for higher authority. If we all possess this same heart, the church of God, would have been heaven on earth.*

You see church talking about someone even though you are right and they are wrong is still wrong. There's need to be a respect for authority, number is people’s lives, but there also needs to be a respect for each other. If that is lost or not pursued in the tough times, we will wake up like Saul.

Pursue respect for authority and one another in the good times of your life, so that when hard times come, when people do harm to you, you will be able to respond out of love because you developed it in your life, just like David did.

*Prayer point:* Dear Lord, give me a right heart to always do your will and always keep your ordinances in Jesus Christ name. Amen!

T.S. AFOLAYAN

*TOPIC: WHAT DO YOU STAND TO GAIN?*(Series 10)

*Scripture Reading:* 1 Samuel 26:15-16

*"David said to Abner, “Are you not a [brave] man? Who is like you in Israel? Why then have you not guarded your lord the king? For one of the people came [into your camp] to kill the king your lord. This thing that you have done is not good. As the Lord lives, you surely deserve to die, because you have not guarded your lord, the Lord’s anointed. And now, see where the king’s spear is, and the jug of water that was by his head.”*(AMP)

Continuation from where we stopped yesterday:

We need to take a lesson from David and stop the gossip, slander and misunderstandings about one another in the congregation of God. We need to critically study the life of David so as to really help us on how to respond to some tough situation amidst brethren.

David stopped the group of men in the cave, and told them not to harm Saul. But I put it to you today that I have seen countless times when ministers of God are after their lives all in the name of ranks, position, authority, influence, connection, fame, etc. Will the Lord be please with this act?

*David specifically ordered Abishai, not to harm Saul because he's the Lord's anointed and he has respect and honor for higher authority. If we all possess this same heart, the church of God, would have been heaven on earth.*

You see church talking about someone even though you are right and they are wrong is still wrong. There's need to be a respect for authority, number is people’s lives, but there also needs to be a respect for each other. If that is lost or not pursued in the tough times, we will wake up like Saul.

Pursue respect for authority and one another in the good times of your life, so that when hard times come, when people do harm to you, you will be able to respond out of love because you developed it in your life, just like David did.

*Prayer point:* Dear Lord, give me a right heart to always do your will and always keep your ordinances in Jesus Christ name. Amen!

T.S. AFOLAYAN

*TOPIC: WHAT DO YOU STAND TO GAIN?*(Series 4)

*Scripture Reading:* 1 Samuel 19:9-10

*"Then an evil spirit from the Lord came on Saul as he was sitting in his house with his spear in his hand, and David was playing the harp with his hand. Saul tried to pin David to the wall with the spear, but he escaped from Saul’s presence, so that Saul only stuck the spear into the wall. Then David fled and escaped that night."*(AMP)

From yesterday teaching, we could see what motivated David and at the same time Saul.

Let me show you briefly how we see that David was a man after God’s own heart, and Saul was a man of selfishness.

Lesson 1: David was motivated by a Love for God and Saul was motivated by what he could get from God. Just as majority of christian today whose love for God is base on what they will get from Him.

: Lets look at David first:

I Sam 18:10 says, *“The next day an evil spirit from God came forcefully upon Saul. He was prophesying in his house, while David was playing the harp, as he usually did. Saul had a spear in his hand and he hurled it, saying to himself, I’ll pin David to the wall. But David eluded him twice”* Now if that would not have been an intense moment in life, look at what happens further as we read:

I Sam 19:9-11 says, *“But an evil spirit from the Lord came upon Saul as he was sitting in his house with his spear in his hand. While David was playing the harp, Saul tried to pin him to the wall with his spear, but David eluded him as Saul drove the spear into the wall. That night David made good his escape.”* It was David’s desire to do the Lord’s will, and not his own. It was God’s will that David be where he was, playing for the King and not tending sheep.

*My question is, why would David still desire to go back to king Saul, knowing that there is that much tension in Saul’s house?* The love of God. Doing the will of God, loving your enemies and praying for those who spitefully use you. To be continue tomorrow morning by God's Grace. Good morning and do have a fruitful Friday, peace.

*Prayer point:* Holy Spirit, help me in doing your will always in Jesus Christ name. Amen!

T.S. AFOLAYAN

21 things that women might find helpful to learn about men:


Understanding men can be complex, as every individual is unique. However, there are some general insights that can help women gain a better understanding of men and their behaviors.

1. Communication Styles: Men often communicate differently than women. They may be more direct and less likely to use subtle hints. Understanding this can help in interpreting their words and intentions.

2. Emotional Expression: Many men are socialized to suppress their emotions. They may not express feelings openly, which can lead to misunderstandings.

3. Need for Space: Men often need personal space and time to process their thoughts and feelings. This doesn't mean they are uninterested; it’s just how they recharge.

4. Problem-Solving Approach: Men tend to approach problems with a solution-oriented mindset. They may not always be looking for emotional support but rather solutions.

5. Different Interests: Men and women may have different interests and hobbies. Engaging in activities that interest him can strengthen the bond.

6. Value of Respect: Many men deeply value respect in relationships. Disrespect can lead to conflict and resentment.

7. Fear of Vulnerability: Men often fear being vulnerable because they worry about being judged or rejected. Creating a safe space can encourage openness.

8. Desire for Appreciation: Men appreciate recognition and validation for their efforts. Simple acknowledgments can go a long way.

9. Friendship Dynamics: Male friendships can be different from female ones. Men may bond through shared activities rather than emotional conversations.

10. Sexuality and Intimacy: Men may view sex as a significant aspect of intimacy. Understanding this can help in navigating physical relationships.

11. Ambition and Achievement: Many men are driven by ambition. Supporting their goals can enhance the relationship.

12. Need for Loyalty: Loyalty is often crucial for men in relationships. They value partners who stand by them.

13. Conflict Resolution: Men may prefer to avoid confrontation. Understanding their conflict resolution style can aid in resolving disagreements.

14. Interest in Physical Appearance: While not universal, many men appreciate physical attractiveness and may be more visually oriented.

15. 21 things that women might find helpful to learn about men: of Humor: Humor can be a vital part of male bonding. Sharing laughs can deepen connections.

16. Social Conditioning: Men are often raised with certain societal expectations that can influence their behavior. Recognizing these can foster empathy.

17. Desire for Companionship: Men often seek companionship and connection, even if they don’t always express it.

18. Need for Independence: Many men value their independence and may resist feeling overly controlled in a relationship.

19. Parenting* Styles: Men may have different approaches to parenting, which can be shaped by their upbringing and experiences.

20. Fear of Failure: Many men fear failure and may not show it. Encouragement and support can help alleviate this fear.

21. Long-Term Thinking: Men may think about the future differently, often focusing on practical aspects. Understanding this perspective can help in planning together.

These insights can help foster better communication and understanding between women and men, leading to healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

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Iliyasu Isah’s NNPC Story: From Driver to Family Hero

When Iliyasu Isah joined NNPC Ltd. in 2012 as a container truck driver, he had no idea where this journey would take him. Neither could he have imagined that a career behind the wheel would not only transform his life, but also reshape his values, his pride in family, and his belief in the potential of women.

Park that.

Over the years, Iliyasu moved up to become a driver for senior management. In his words, "All my bosses have been women and that experience changed my life.”

He was raised in a culture in which sons were more celebrated than daughters, so Iliyasu silently wrestled with feelings of inadequacy as the father of three girls. But something began to shift in the course of his years working for strong, intelligent, female leaders.

“They changed how I see everything… I now look at my daughters and feel nothing but pride,” he said. And rightly so. His eldest is 22 and studying Cyber Security at the university. The second daughter is 20 and is studying Public Administration. The baby in the family is 14, finishing secondary school, with big dreams of her own.

Iliyasu shared that because of NNPC Ltd., he has been able to train his children and many others in his extended family. He says it is an honour to be in a position to provide, but it’s also his responsibility as a first son.

He has become a pillar in his extended family; an image of what opportunity and dedication can produce.

“NNPC Ltd. has done everything for my family… Many people in my village have eaten from the fruits of my labour with this company. I will always be thankful,” he said.

I asked him what else he was thankful for. He smiled. Nothing prepared him for what happened at the handing over ceremony of thirty-five (35) hybrid Compressed Natural Gas-powered buses to the Presidential Initiative on Compressed Natural Gas (Pi-CNG). (You can read the story when you visit https://nnpcgroup.com/insights/nnpc-ltd-donates-35-cng-buses-to-presidential-initiative-on-cng-restates-commitment-to-cleaner-sustainable-fuel-alternative). The Group Chief Executive Officer (GCEO), Engr. Bashir Bayo Ojulari, boarded his bus with VIP guests in attendance.

“I’ve never come close to any GCEO…. I’ve never been on GCEO’s floor,” Iliyasu said, his voice full of emotion. “But the GCEO shook my hand. Looked me in the eye to greet me. I’m so happy.”

That handshake spoke volumes. It affirmed what he has seen along his journey here: Every role matters. Everyone matters. Everyone can be seen.

Leadership isn’t male or female. It’s human.

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