*TOPIC: CHRISTIAN HOME: PILLARS THAT SUSTAIN OUR MARRIAGE*(Series 5)
*Scripture Reading:* 1Peter 3:5-7, Zechariah 8:16.
Summary from yesterday series. *A husband/wife who values his/her spouse will express gratitude toward him/her when either of them accomplishes something. He/She will try to understand their tendency to “fix” problems and provide answers.*
*5) Understanding:* 1Peter 3:7 says; *"In the same way you husbands must live with your wives with the proper understanding that they are more delicate than you. Treat them with respect, because they also will receive, together with you, God's gift of life. Do this so that nothing will interfere with your prayers."* Understanding one another is a pillar that has everything to do with going to school. *A husband’s job is to become a student of his wife. A wife’s job is to become a student of her husband.*
Husband and wife might ask the following questions:
How well do I know my spouse?
Am I aware of what he/she likes to eat?
Do I know what it is that makes him/her happy? Sad? Frustrated? Angry?
Am I aware of how he/she will react in certain situations?
How does he/she think and communicate?
Why does he/she feel certain ways?
*Understanding one’s spouse is vital in order to ensure that one will be able to show respect, communicate effectively, and be what that other person needs.*
There are a variety of books and seminars that deal with the issue of trying to understand one’s spouse. What they all have in common is the premise that a husband can learn about a wife and a wife can learn about a husband. The key is to learn what one’s spouse interprets as love and do that, even though one’s tendency is to do what would make oneself feel loved.
*The bottom line is that a husband must become the student of his wife and a wife must become the student of her husband for them to grow a great marriage.* To be continue tomorrow morning by God's Grace. Good morning and do have a great day, peace.
*Prayer point:* I receive God's help to relate with my spouse in understanding and accordance to God's will in Jesus Christ name. Amen!
T.S. AFOLAYAN
*Scripture Reading:* 1Peter 3:5-7, Zechariah 8:16.
Summary from yesterday series. *A husband/wife who values his/her spouse will express gratitude toward him/her when either of them accomplishes something. He/She will try to understand their tendency to “fix” problems and provide answers.*
*5) Understanding:* 1Peter 3:7 says; *"In the same way you husbands must live with your wives with the proper understanding that they are more delicate than you. Treat them with respect, because they also will receive, together with you, God's gift of life. Do this so that nothing will interfere with your prayers."* Understanding one another is a pillar that has everything to do with going to school. *A husband’s job is to become a student of his wife. A wife’s job is to become a student of her husband.*
Husband and wife might ask the following questions:
How well do I know my spouse?
Am I aware of what he/she likes to eat?
Do I know what it is that makes him/her happy? Sad? Frustrated? Angry?
Am I aware of how he/she will react in certain situations?
How does he/she think and communicate?
Why does he/she feel certain ways?
*Understanding one’s spouse is vital in order to ensure that one will be able to show respect, communicate effectively, and be what that other person needs.*
There are a variety of books and seminars that deal with the issue of trying to understand one’s spouse. What they all have in common is the premise that a husband can learn about a wife and a wife can learn about a husband. The key is to learn what one’s spouse interprets as love and do that, even though one’s tendency is to do what would make oneself feel loved.
*The bottom line is that a husband must become the student of his wife and a wife must become the student of her husband for them to grow a great marriage.* To be continue tomorrow morning by God's Grace. Good morning and do have a great day, peace.
*Prayer point:* I receive God's help to relate with my spouse in understanding and accordance to God's will in Jesus Christ name. Amen!
T.S. AFOLAYAN
*TOPIC: CHRISTIAN HOME: PILLARS THAT SUSTAIN OUR MARRIAGE*(Series 5)
*Scripture Reading:* 1Peter 3:5-7, Zechariah 8:16.
Summary from yesterday series. *A husband/wife who values his/her spouse will express gratitude toward him/her when either of them accomplishes something. He/She will try to understand their tendency to “fix” problems and provide answers.*
*5) Understanding:* 1Peter 3:7 says; *"In the same way you husbands must live with your wives with the proper understanding that they are more delicate than you. Treat them with respect, because they also will receive, together with you, God's gift of life. Do this so that nothing will interfere with your prayers."* Understanding one another is a pillar that has everything to do with going to school. *A husband’s job is to become a student of his wife. A wife’s job is to become a student of her husband.*
Husband and wife might ask the following questions:
How well do I know my spouse?
Am I aware of what he/she likes to eat?
Do I know what it is that makes him/her happy? Sad? Frustrated? Angry?
Am I aware of how he/she will react in certain situations?
How does he/she think and communicate?
Why does he/she feel certain ways?
*Understanding one’s spouse is vital in order to ensure that one will be able to show respect, communicate effectively, and be what that other person needs.*
There are a variety of books and seminars that deal with the issue of trying to understand one’s spouse. What they all have in common is the premise that a husband can learn about a wife and a wife can learn about a husband. The key is to learn what one’s spouse interprets as love and do that, even though one’s tendency is to do what would make oneself feel loved.
*The bottom line is that a husband must become the student of his wife and a wife must become the student of her husband for them to grow a great marriage.* To be continue tomorrow morning by God's Grace. Good morning and do have a great day, peace.
*Prayer point:* I receive God's help to relate with my spouse in understanding and accordance to God's will in Jesus Christ name. Amen!
T.S. AFOLAYAN
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