Whenever there’s a s3xual deficit in marriage, the men in our community are encouraged to look to other women as a solution - Nigerian man writes

A Nigerian marriage therapist, Shamsudden Giwa, has shared how men are encouraged to seek other women when s3xual incompatibility arises in marriage, while women are advised to pray and focus on the children.  Whenever theres a s3xual deficit in the marriage, the men in our community are encouraged to look to other women as a solution but ask same people what a woman should do if shes the one whose sexual needs have not been met. Suddenly you hear be patient, pray more, focus on your children, take your mind away from it' he wrote.  "The hypocrisy appears. "In truth, s3xual balance in marriage is a lot of work and needs the deliberate efforts of both parties. The solution lies in healthy perseverance and compromise of both parties as they work to improve and create a midpoint that can be sustained. If the solution to every marital challenge is jumping ship, no marriage will survive.   The post Whenever theres a s3xual deficit in marriage, the men in our community are encouraged to look to other women as a solution - Nigerian man writes appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.